Every summer, people start prepping for fall recruitment and most of them are working on the wrong things. I did it too. Before I rushed as a sophomore, I spent probably two weeks doing stuff that had zero impact on how recruitment actually went - and almost no time on the things that mattered. So here's what I actually think, coming from someone who was a GDI first and has now seen how chapters evaluate potential new members up close. ... Read more

Chico State has a reputation. Anyone who's spent five minutes around Greek life at a California school knows it. So when the university announced it's actively working to change Greek culture as part of a broader effort to curb hazing, my first instinct was skepticism - not because the goal is wrong, but because universities announce this kind of thing all the time and then basically nothing changes. But reading about what Chico State is actually trying to do, I think there's something worth paying attention to here. ... Read more

Every chapter has them. The philanthropy events you drag yourself to because you have to, the ones where you spend three hours standing in a parking lot pretending to care about the foam pit your treasurer rented for sixty bucks. And then there are the ones that somehow become highlights of the whole semester. I've done both. Plenty of both. Here's how you tell the difference before you commit your entire Saturday to something that's gonna feel like community service in the worst way possible. ... Read more

Saint Louis University just suspended Alpha Eta Rho fraternity over what the school is calling a 'physical hazing incident.' No additional details have been made public yet - no timeline, no description of what actually happened, no word on how long the suspension will last. Just the announcement and the label. And honestly, that combination of vagueness and severity is something I've watched play out on campuses enough times now that it barely surprises me anymore. That's a problem worth thinking about. ... Read more

Nobody talks about academic probation like it actually happens. You hear about it in whispers, or you see a chapter go quiet on social media for a semester, or someone mentions it offhand at a philanthropy event. But the truth is that almost every chapter - at some point - has been there. And the way a brotherhood handles it says more about who they are than any bid day photo ever could. ... Read more

There's this whole invisible architecture to Greek social life that nobody explains during recruitment. You find out about it gradually - through casual comments, through noticing patterns, through eventually asking someone older in your chapter why you keep seeing the same fraternities at every sorority philanthropy event. The answer is almost never random. Greek social calendars are political in a way that took me a while to fully appreciate, and I say that as someone who didn't join until sophomore year and had zero context for any of it. ... Read more

Every school thinks their Greek Week is the best. And honestly, most of them are wrong - but in the most entertaining way possible. I spent four years watching our council try to one-up itself every spring, and by senior year I had enough context to know that some schools are genuinely doing something special while others are just running a slightly competitive field day with matching t-shirts. There's a difference. A big one. ... Read more

Transfer students get handed a weird set of rules the moment they step on campus. They're expected to settle in fast, make friends fast, figure out a new school fast - and then, somewhere in that chaos, they're also supposed to figure out Greek recruitment on a timeline that was never designed with them in mind. I've sat in enough Panhellenic meetings to know that the system doesn't exactly roll out the welcome mat. And most councils aren't even embarrassed about it. ... Read more

There's a pattern most people don't talk about honestly. A fraternity gets suspended - national headlines, campus outrage, a stern statement from the university - and then six months later everyone kind of forgets about it. Then it happens again. Different chapter, same script. And if you've spent any real time in Greek life, you already know which houses on your campus are perpetually one incident away from losing their charter. ... Read more

There's a Her Campus piece floating around right now about a woman who didn't join a sorority, spent some time with serious FOMO about it, and then eventually found her people and got over it. And look, I read the whole thing. As a guy who spent four years in a fraternity and watched plenty of friends go through the exact same spiral from the other side of it, I have some thoughts. ... Read more

You have made one of the biggest decisions of your life to go to college. Congratulations! However, that’s not the only decision that you’ll have to make when it comes to college life. Another important decision that you’ll probably make is the decision to go Greek in college. Greek life has lots of benefits to offer to its members – opportunities to build a network, social/community activities to participate in, a strong brotherhood bond to maintain, and many more!  However, one of the biggest challenges college guys face at the beginning of their Greek life is choosing the right fraternity for themselves.... Read more

Every summer, people start prepping for fall recruitment and most of them are working on the wrong things. I did it too. Before I rushed as a sophomore, I spent probably two weeks doing stuff that had zero impact on how recruitment actually went - and almost no time on the things that mattered. So here's what I actually think, coming from someone who was a GDI first and has now seen how chapters evaluate potential new members up close. ... Read more

Texas Monthly ran a piece recently about the real power of sorority sisterhood - not the Instagram version, not the rush week performance, but what it actually looks like when women build something lasting inside these organizations. And honestly, reading it from where I sit, having spent two years on Panhellenic council watching chapters from the inside out, it hit differently than I expected. ... Read more

Chico State has a reputation. Anyone who's spent five minutes around Greek life at a California school knows it. So when the university announced it's actively working to change Greek culture as part of a broader effort to curb hazing, my first instinct was skepticism - not because the goal is wrong, but because universities announce this kind of thing all the time and then basically nothing changes. But reading about what Chico State is actually trying to do, I think there's something worth paying attention to here. ... Read more

Every chapter has them. The philanthropy events you drag yourself to because you have to, the ones where you spend three hours standing in a parking lot pretending to care about the foam pit your treasurer rented for sixty bucks. And then there are the ones that somehow become highlights of the whole semester. I've done both. Plenty of both. Here's how you tell the difference before you commit your entire Saturday to something that's gonna feel like community service in the worst way possible. ... Read more