re rushing as a dude

If you’ve been dropped from a fraternity before, don’t go back to them during rush. None of us want to have to walk you out, but we’ll all do it if we have to. Just go to another house. My fraternity last semester rushed somebody who was dropped from one that’s traditionally much lower-tier than we are (on this site, real life tiers don’t exist), and he turned out to be awesome. There’s a group for everyone out there, and if one has decided that you don’t fit in just go find another where you do.