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It only takes one house. Sisterhood and pref is when you'll really start getting to know the chapters on a more intimate level (especially pref since it is considered a ritual). I highly recommend sticking it out until then because you never know, the houses you have left may surprise you. Go in to them with an open mind and you might fall in love.

You might fall in love!!! I did!!

Agree, go to pref and really ask yourself if you've enjoyed talking to the sisters you've met. If the answer is yes then that's the one chapter for you. If you just do not have any comfortable feelings, then you don't have to sign your pref card and can go through recruitment next year, but be classy about it because chapters talk and have long memories about PNMs that bad mouth people.

Please consider at least going to pref. Every chapter is unique and it's hard to really get to know them in the speed of the early rounds. Sisterhood and Pref give you that time. Also, they are all large enough that there will definitely be women there you love, and you have three years as a sister to recruit more women you love.