I graduated in 2023 with 47 women I called sisters and about six I actually talk to now. That number used to embarrass me a little. Like maybe I'd done something wrong, or hadn't tried hard enough to stay connected. But I've stopped feeling bad about it. Because I think six real ones - after everything - is actually a lot. ... Read more

The University of Central Oklahoma is hosting a Greek Preview Day on April 10, and if you're a prospective student or a curious freshman thinking about rushing, you're probably a little excited about it. That's fair. I was too, once. But I want to talk about what these preview events actually are - and what they're not - because nobody told me the difference before I walked into mine. ... Read more

There's a moment every chapter officer hits eventually. You're on the phone with your national headquarters, trying to get a simple answer about your recruitment budget or a new member education policy, and you realize - this person has no idea who you are, what your campus is like, or what you actually need. They're reading from a script. And your chapter is just one of two hundred dots on a spreadsheet they'll never look at twice. ... Read more

ABC News ran a piece recently on how to handle sorority recruitment - the competitive side of it, the strategy, the pressure. And look, I get why mainstream outlets cover it. Recruitment season is genuinely stressful, and for a lot of women going through Panhellenic for the first time, it can feel like a gauntlet nobody prepared them for. But watching the Greek experience get filtered through a news segment makes me realize how much gets lost in translation every single time. ... Read more

If you're a freshman girl who just heard the word "recruitment" for the first time and your only reference point is TikTok montages of girls crying and jumping up and down in matching outfits - you are not alone, and you are also working with incomplete information. Panhellenic formal recruitment is one of the strangest, most structured, most genuinely meaningful processes on a college campus, and almost nobody explains it to you before you're already in it. ... Read more

Award ceremonies in Greek life get dismissed a lot. I get it - they can feel like a participation trophy situation where every chapter gets a plaque and everyone goes home feeling validated without anything actually changing. But the Ritter Awards at Mississippi State University are worth paying attention to, and not just because MSU's Office of Fraternity and Sorority Life put out a press release about it. ... Read more

Every fall, thousands of students sprint through recruitment trying to impress as many chapters as possible. They wear the outfits, memorize the talking points, smile through six-hour rotation days. And somewhere in the middle of all of it, they forget the only question that actually matters: does this place feel right for you? ... Read more

Nobody sat me down junior year and said, "Here's how Greek life will actually help your career." It just kind of happened, quietly, over time, in ways I didn't recognize until I was already out the other side. I joined Alpha Chi Omega for the sisterhood - full stop. But the professional network I stumbled into? That came from the fraternity guys across the hall at every study hall, every philanthropy event, every awkward co-ed service project. And I genuinely didn't see it coming. ... Read more

I've watched guys I considered some of the sharpest people in my pledge class fall behind academically by junior year. Not because they weren't capable. Because they let the chapter swallow their schedule whole. And I've also watched guys in the same house - same parties, same philanthropy weekends, same 6 a.m. brotherhood retreats - graduate in four years with solid GPAs and actual job offers lined up. The difference wasn't intelligence. It wasn't even discipline in the way people usually mean it. It was something more specific than that, and I didn't fully understand it until I was about six months out from graduation myself. ... Read more

Before I joined a fraternity, I went to exactly two Greek events as a GDI. One mixer where I knew nobody and stood near the snack table the whole time, and one philanthropy event where I felt like I was watching a performance I hadn't been given a script for. I remember thinking everyone seemed to know something I didn't. Turns out, they did. ... Read more

You have made one of the biggest decisions of your life to go to college. Congratulations! However, that’s not the only decision that you’ll have to make when it comes to college life. Another important decision that you’ll probably make is the decision to go Greek in college. Greek life has lots of benefits to offer to its members – opportunities to build a network, social/community activities to participate in, a strong brotherhood bond to maintain, and many more!  However, one of the biggest challenges college guys face at the beginning of their Greek life is choosing the right fraternity for themselves.... Read more

I graduated in 2023 with 47 women I called sisters and about six I actually talk to now. That number used to embarrass me a little. Like maybe I'd done something wrong, or hadn't tried hard enough to stay connected. But I've stopped feeling bad about it. Because I think six real ones - after everything - is actually a lot. ... Read more

So Alpha Zeta had a fire. Fire departments responded, the house got damaged, and now everybody's doing that thing where they shake their heads and say something vague about fraternity houses being old. And look, I get it. But I want to push back on the idea that this is just some random unfortunate event. Because it's not. It's a pattern, and Greek life keeps treating it like a surprise every single time. ... Read more

Nobody warned me about the scheduling conflict between picking a major and actually living inside a fraternity. I mean, they warned me about time management in some vague, orientation-video kind of way. But they didn't tell me that Sigma Alpha Epsilon's calendar would be so genuinely packed that I'd be choosing between a major advising appointment and philanthropy week setup - and that I'd pick the philanthropy week every single time. Twice. Until I almost picked the wrong major entirely. ... Read more

Nobody warned me that formal season has logistics. I thought it was just, show up in a suit, take some pictures, have a good night. Then I joined Sigma Chi as a sophomore and watched our social chair spend three weeks coordinating a venue, a shuttle, a photographer, a DJ, catering deposits, and a guest list spreadsheet that went through like six versions. It's basically event planning with a dress code. And once I understood that, the whole experience made a lot more sense. ... Read more