oos pnm

just out of curiosity because I've heard this, which state are you from? I know the old row houses take girls from OOS but how many of those OOS girls are from states not in the south?

Every single house, including the "old row" houses, "take" OOS girls. I bet no house has more than half in-state. There are just too many OOS pnms. So there will always be girls that can come on here and say they are old row OOS. Many will say they are very happy. Many are actually very happy.

What an OOS pnm needs to keep in mind is that the old row have proportionally more in-state than new row houses. For example, Tridelt or AXO might be like 50/50, with the 50 percent OOS being 80/20 southern/northern (with northern not including California but including places like Illinois and New Jersey). While new row houses like Pi Phi, ADPi, AOII, etc will be sort of 25/75 in-state/OOS, with more of the OOS being from outside the south.

there are no bright lines or general conclusions that people can make like "do old-row take OOS" or "do old-row take only in-state". The question there is too simplistic.

Bottom line for every pnm is to just experience it for yourself, maximize your options, don't form conclusions or rankings in advance and just go with the flow and see the glass as always half full. If you worry or plot too much in advance, you are just going to be spinning your wheels.