I’m an obvious Filler Girl/ GPA Booster for KD
by: Obvious FillerWhat should I do about being an obvious filler girl / GPA Booster? Clear no one in this house wants you if you aren’t from Alabama. Do I just drop now? Does it get worse?
#1 by: pls
KD is a good house, give it time and you WILL find your people. It’s been a day barely, keep talking to the girls, they offered you a bid for a reason. Even if it was a grade thing (which it probably wasn’t) they saw you as improving their chapter and that’s wonderful.
Commentby: SameAug 17, 2020 3:23:12 AM
^^^ sorry that was rambling but my point was give it time. Trust me when I say there are other girls in your pc that feel the exact same way. Meet and become friends with these girls and you will have just as awesome of an experience as the girls from Alabama
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by: GeezAug 17, 2020 8:55:49 AM
#3 by: filler girl
Hello! Old Row “filler girl” here too. I was from far OOS and honestly felt weird and confused on Bid Day. But I ended up finding a group of friends and with time also made friends with more of the girls from Alabama. Just give it time, you will ending up being alright and congrats!
by: NopeAug 22, 2020 2:13:10 PM
Lol they were like my last choice for pref. I haven’t liked them at all this entire time.
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#5 by: KD
I’m a KD alum and I’m sorry to hear you feel that well. Some of the mobile and mb girls were that way to us too all those years ago. Please don’t give up and Instead take over!!! KD needs you and we need a fresh perspective on recruitment. Whatever is happening isn’t working because we lose so many cute PNMs. Glad to know you weren’t one of those!!! Congrats and AOT.
#7 by: First days
Your spot in your house is yours. It is up to you to make the most of this opportunity. Be friends across cliques. Everyone feels a little nervous in the first few days about getting to know the rest of the pledge class. Be the person who is kind and inclusive, and you will have a great experience.
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by: SameAug 17, 2020 3:20:34 AM
I was in a house with a similar rep to KD as a “filler girl” but remember you’re more than that. You were just someone they didn’t know before rush. Obviously the girls in the house liked you because they kept you around and gave you a bid. With pledge classes this huge half of the girls are “fillers” and you will find your crowd. There’s a reason you ended up there.
I felt awful on the bid day retreat, me and the other girls were talking about how left out we felt, everyone knew each other, etc. I cried to my mom on the phone about how I made the wrong choice. It sucked initially but eventually we all found our groups.The southern girls were nice enough, just not really looking to make new friends or expand... it didn’t matter though because I had the best time and made amazing friends anyway. I am so happy with the decision I made and so glad I stuck it out
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