wondering

You have only spent a few minutes in each house. Don't you think you are being a little superficial by deciding this early that the 400 women in each of your remaining choices are not good enough for you? I encourage you to continue through the process and give the remaining houses, who obviously thought you were great, a chance. Why would you want to drop, hoping to join a house that cut you, over a house that DID see YOUR VALUE? PNMs best choice is to go with a house that wants you for you!

This is a brutal process for 90 percent of the pnms. Nearly 100 percent will get hurt in some way. This is not a competition. This is real life. No participation trophies. No “do overs”. Whatever you are dealing with and have left — make it work. If you stick it out you will grow as a person and get a bid somewhere. Even the “lowest” houses have tons of amazing women. The differences are truly superficial. Don’t be a victim. Don’t allow yourself to let superficialities steal your joy.

By the definition of anti hazing laws sorority rush is hazing.

I'd argue that any actual PNM or Active who posts on here after the No-Contact date is breaking the rules.

Of course, since the majority of people are trolls and Alums, not too many people would actually get in trouble.