do i have to attend every party?

U r correct! But may I ask why you're seeking advice on GR? Confidenin your sisters! Good luck! You'll need it!

I know this is a troll, but for other PNMs reading this.., there is no such thing as a guaranteed bid ahead of time. They don't exist. Even if a house thinks they want you, they can't guarantee you a bid because the ENTIRE house has to vote on you. And you'd be amazed how much the "pre-rush wish list" differs from the actual wish list after pref. Top girls get moved to the bottom of the list and unknown girls can move to the top as we learn more about them and meet them throughout the week.

And like someone said, if a sophomore has promised you a bid, you better believe that's not true. Sophomores have never been on the other side before and they have no clue how voting works.

So if someone promises you a bid, be nice and most definitely keep your options open because they can drop you in a second.

Troll, troll, troll. Sad little troll. I'm glad you are a troll though, because it would pain me to think that my future classmates were this stupid. Obviously, you are just someone who wants to bash a house for supposedly dirty rushing.

Let's hypothetically assume that some house really did already promise you a bid. 100% positive if you were that awesome, you wouldn't be hanging around here on GR asking questions that you could easily ask your future sisters that question. Not to mention that if they really DID promise you a bid, and see you on here bragging about it, you'd lose it. Sorry, sad, sad little troll.

Carry on though, little troll. Carry on.

This one really isn't even clever. Bored now.

UPDATE: So I asked the actives that I'm friends with, and they told me that I in fact would NOT be released from recruitment if I skipped parties. They recommended that I go to all of them, but said it's my choice and I won't get in trouble if I don't. So thanks for lying to me Greekrank trolls <3 Jealousy is not a cute look on y'all!

Omg Zeta is doing this for me too! We're gonna be sisters!!! ZLAM!

Have fun being on social probation for the endless dirty rushing miss future zeta