snaps

Thanks. It's been an emotional roller coaster this week. I dropped b/c I didn't find any connection with the houses I had left. Sad b/c I really wanted a connection....

I'm sorry to hear that. I get that it's a hard week, but it's like dating. There's not always going to be sparks. You don't always know it's the one and sometimes it surprises you. That's why it's important to stick with the process and slowly let a love for a sorority develop. So many girls start in a position where they don't get what they thought they wanted and learn to make the best of what they have.

Unfortunately you may not be able to do that. If you do get a snap bid tomorrow, take it. Don't turn it down because it's not the house you didn't want. Give it a try because they obviously see something in you so you should try to see something in them. If you don't get a snap, it's worth trying COB. It's soo much more casual than formal recruitment and you get to see a realer version of the girls.

If not there's no harm in waiting until next year to try again, but actually finish from start to end if you choose that option. It's great to be a Greek at USC. You'll miss out if you focus too much on one set of letters.