Why do pairs matter so much?

Honestly pairings are kinda a dumb way to rank a sorority. If ur decent looking you can basically get in anywhere. A lot of bottom houses have girls who can get you in places too. Plus after u turn 21 frats really don’t matter lol. Go where you feel at home. (This is coming from a “bottom” sorority member who party’s w the top lol)

Don’t be scared. Like the other person said, girls in bottom houses can still get into other frats. Its not the end of the world

If you have a top house vibe don't worry too much. Walk in like you belong.

As long as you're decent looking and don't cause drama, getting into a party and even dating is no problem no matter your tier.

Guys dont turn down attractive/chill girls because they have the wrong letters. You wont be drinking in letters anyway.

If you're mid and insecure and need a house to validate how hot you are (this is actually more an issue with guys then girl) consider therapy.

Love yourself