How do chapters rank PNMs?

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If you get dropped usually it’s not that they didn’t like u or anything like that. Most of the time it’s cuz they see you thriving more at another house

Getting dropped doesn't mean the girls you talked to didn't like you or wouldn't want to be friends with you, or that the chapter found something wrong with you. The houses are each allowed to bring back a certain number each round and no more, so it's just a numbers game. If a house could only have back 100 girls for the next round and they liked you fine but you were ranked at 101 then they have no choice but to not be able to ask you back. Don't take it personally.

Only take getting dropped personally if you did something inappropriate. Like said something inappropriate, was rude, or acted like you didn’t want to be there. Otherwise, you just have to understand that rejection is redirection. Each house has a profile of girl that they want based on their values and personality. You can vibe with girls who have a different personality than you, but not necessarily be sisters with them. You’d certainly be happier somewhere else while still having friends in those houses! As for how the actual dropping process works, you’ll never know until you join a house lol that’s confidential and each house does it differently

Retweet for all the girls getting their lists back tmrw, sisterhood lists are usually the most brutal to receive, but all of the responses to this post are so true!! Please, don’t be discouraged if your lists aren’t what you expected! Everything happens for a reason and while it may not make sense right now, I promise one day you’ll look back and understand and be thankful about where you ended up. If you ever need help, your rho gams are there to support you <3

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