if you’re a pnm...

...get off this website.
I did the same thing when I was a PNM- I was super worried about recruitment and wanted to know EVERYTHING and Greekrank seemed like the best, most honest resource. If you really want recruitment advice, like what to worry about and how to act, talk to girls who are in sororities, or even better, talk to graduates. Girls in sororities can’t tell you everything, but the advice they can give you is the type you actually want.