Grow up!!!!!!!!

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So true. I don’t think many UT students are posting here, they stay on YikYak. I think it’s mostly moms and alumni who don’t know anything about Panhellenic in 2026.

PARENTS, stop complaining that your girl who ticked all the boxes and is practically perfect in every way was released from some chapters and got her feelings hurt. It's time for all of you to grow up and not blame 'the system' that doesn't work like a high school sign up sheet. EVERY PNM is gorgeous, EVERY PNM has good grades, EVERY PNM has high school accomplishments. This is a different pool your girl is swimming in and also not your old life. Sororities are choosing their memberships, not the other way around. Sororities always choose their high school and home town friends first, as is their right. They are going to choose the girls they already know every time over the ones they don't. They are private social clubs and they can choose as they wish. Your girl is disappointed but it's not the fault of 'the system' and it's not her fault either, it's no one's fault it's just life. When your girl enters the job market and ticks all the boxes but doesn't get that job she wants, what site are you going on to complain about 'the system'? What about that perfect guy she wants but doesn't get? Is 'the system' to blame? Grow up, all of you.