rushed spring and don't belong.

by: help Feb 2, 2016 3:37:44 PM

I just joined a sorority this spring but I don't know if it's for me. I feel weird going into the house, like I don't belong. I'm sticking it out because I don't want to wait another year to rush but I have some regrets now... What should I do?

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#1 by: help Feb 2, 2016 3:38:55 PM

for the record, i also regret not having all the choices and the set up of fall rush

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#2 by: girl Feb 2, 2016 6:00:01 PM

homegirl you have been a new member for less than a week. I can promise you that even in the fall with 80+ new members, it still feels uncomfortable for a short while until you start to make friends and get comfortable. I know that it took me at least a full semester to be comfortable napping and walking around without shoes and spending all day at the house. You will make friends and you will get comfortable, just make an effort to go to the house every day and spend time there reading/doing homework/napping/eating/talking/netflixing/etc and it will become a literal second home to you.

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#3 by: yeah Feb 2, 2016 6:58:31 PM

I joined a sorority this fall and didn't feel truly at home until December. It really does take time, but definitely wait it out until initiation. This new period is really hard so try and stick it out!:)

By: yeah Feb 2, 2016 6:58:31 PM