i have a dilemma
by: HelpMy mom iis an adpi At Uf. I have two older sisters. One is an active member of ZTa and my oldest sister was im Tri delta. I rush this fall and preffed at Zta and a great middle tier house . I did not get invited back to Adpi after sisterhood and Tri delt after round one. I got. Bid from ZTA. I dropped them before I was initiated. I just did not feel I fit in. I am more studious and do not party much. I want to rush again in the fall. My sister is so embarrassed on what I did at ZTA. ZTA is a wonderful house but it is just just not for me. I really want a bid to Adpi. . My mother has reached out to the rush chair again and put in a good word for me. My mistake was taking the bid from ZETA. Do I have a chance at all? What do you think? This is a serious question.
Comment#3 by: Wow
You do have connections but that is not a guarantee at all. A legacy means nothing at some houses but it does at Adpi. Adpi is the toughest house to get a bid from, Period. Try to meet some of the girls. You may have already been black listed . Girls talk and adpi and zta’s are friends!
by: Shut up Dec 15, 2019 8:34:50 PM
You do not crap. As a senior I know girls in my house that dropped before being initiated . Many actually over the last 3 years. Most of them rushed the the next fall and got a bid from another houses, it happens a lot! It is no bad reflection on the house they dropped. It happens in all of the tiers . I seriously doubt people are lying about this. One of my NF’s did this at UF two years ago. She is not a troll!
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by: CorrectDec 16, 2019 2:08:41 AM
Since this is posted on multiple GR sites, it's pretty obvious it's a troll, but go off I guess Shut Up
FYI if you're gonna troll, better not to be so identifiable. It's easy to find out if you're real
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by: Shut up Dec 20, 2019 9:32:53 AM
by: ^Dec 15, 2019 7:33:11 PM
Is this what you do? You call out people who call out trolls? You must work for greek rank.
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by: Hey ?????????Dec 16, 2019 2:10:27 AM
Some of us have friends at other schools and visit their pages too
Sorry you're such a loser
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#6 by: This happened to me too.
I accepted a bid from Phi mu. Great house, great girls. I just did not fit in at phi mu. I am a minority and a average in looks but heavy for being 20 years old. I am honest ! Rushed the following fall) this was two years ago-and accepted a bid from SK. No one was judging me, I knew I would only get a bid from the lower tier houses. I also loved axo and kappa. Both houses have over weight girls. I love SK, living in the house, made the ex board too. There are HAPPY endings after all!
by: Yes Dec 17, 2019 8:47:22 PM
This is 100 percent the truth. I am in phi mu and I know this girl. She is a very very nice person, I am glad she found her home,
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#8 by: Try again
Rush next fall. No guarantee thought, I rushed my freshman year and dropped out before preffed. Rushed my sophomore year. Preffed at Dg, xo and zeta. Thought I was going to get a bid from DG. I ended up getting a bid to Xo. I was upset at first, but ended up loving Xo. I never thought I would end up there. Lesson learned rush with an open mind.
by: BumpDec 24, 2019 9:03:48 PM
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by: Yep Dec 25, 2019 12:57:52 PM
Contrary to what you read on this site. Adpi’s and Zeta’s get along great .
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