if you are a new member

if you are a new member get off this site, get off this site, get off this site. the best thing you can do during your new member time is be at your house, try to make friends and put you all into that. you will find nothing redeeming on this site no matter what chapter or tier you are in. top receives hate, bottom receives hate. this is not how it should be and if you dwell on it, it will ruin this experience. you rushed to gain sisters and make memories--not to worry about why you are not good enough for XYZ house, why you were cut, or to feel like garbage. many people are and or have been in the same boat as you are right now. it will get better--thats why each house has over 200 radiant, beautiful women--because they realized it was their home and where the belong (no matter the tier). go off of actual experiences, not this website