advice

Just be yourself! If a chapter feels like you wouldn't fit in and you are being yourself than that isn't the right chapter for you! The girls know their chapter best and getting dropped isn't always a bad thing

Be put together, and don't be fake. Wear cute, conservative outfits that show your personality. Try to keep a smile and look like you're enjoying yourself. Basically, think of things that make you enjoy talking to someone, and do those things. For example, if you are a bubbly person, make an effort to show that, because it's fun to talk to

looks get ranked as soon as you step inside

Be yourself and just try to vibe with the girl that's recruiting you. If you look put together and have a good convo you you will be golden because you're mostly getting judged on their experience of talking with you. Just keep in mind the girls recruiting you are also pretty nervous because it's our job to keep the conversation flowing and make you feel comfortable which can be difficult. Just don't feel like you have to act fake or different than yourself to get along with your recruiter because you could end up with people you don't fit in with

The girls rushing you aren't told to judge you at the door or by how you look (at least not in my chapter and I hope not in others) but that doesn't mean the individual girl won't. But don't worry about that, just look presentable and be yourself, you'll find your place! :)

of course you get rated on things but no one is actually going to tell you what they rate you on

Look your absolute best and it helps if you are outgoing as sororities want involved members. Be interested in the house and ask questions. Try not to be nervous. Do NOT talk about partying and boys.

look as good as you possibly can. be as engaging as you possibly can. the point is to make the girl want to be your friend, want to introduce you to her friends, want to be affiliated with you.