sororities

"Top" can be very different to different people. It is completely subjective.

There are people in AoPhi who would hate being in DZ. There are girls in APhi who hate being in Aphi and wish they would have joined a different house.

There is no top middle or bottom. It is just what fits best for you. If you worry what some social climbing snob still mentally stuck in middle school thinks about your house, you are never going to be happy.

It will take a year or so, but those types of social tiering snots will realize before too long that most people are looking down at them and want nothing to do with their tiers.