dear pnms

This is Miami University. I went into rush thinking I was gonna get a bid from a top tier sorority, and I didn't. Truth is, if I had gone to a state school (like Osu for example) I would've gotten my top tier bid. Our top tier girls are so ridiculously perfect that even if you are really cute and well rounded, you probably won't get a bid because that's just how competitive it is. I'm just saying, prepare to be disappointed during rush. Getting a bid from dz or kappa would be like getting a top tier bid at another school. Even our lower bottom sororities (like phi mu or KD) would probably be considered top middle anywhere else. Just please keep this in mind while rushing and remember that if you get dropped by some of the top houses