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by: sdhajsdo sororities have a problem w sophomore gdis going to mixers? i heard some upperclassmen are not allowing it rn
Commentby: PleaseOct 29, 2018 11:39:31 AM
You can say what you want about me but most don’t want to share mixers this early in the year. Call me tough that’s fine. I paid my dues literally and figuratively. Sorry if it hurts your feelings.
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by: are you seriousOct 29, 2018 11:27:16 AM
by: FairOct 29, 2018 11:33:53 AM
No I think that girls are left out because others think that. You think kappa would take girls who didn’t get bids out with them.?
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by: TruthOct 29, 2018 4:31:06 PM
by: WowOct 29, 2018 5:32:19 PM
Wow. That’s harsh. Way to bash DZ. I know some girls in DZ and they are amazing. Maybe if people didn’t think like you they wouldn’t be struggling. Btw they have mixers and they would bring anyone who wanted to come because they dont judge.
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#6 by: hold on
so wait let me get this straight...... Every girl had an opportunity for a bid if they went through recruitment. The girls that rushed dropped either because they didn't get called back to sorority of choice or they received a bid they didn't want and dropped. So now your mad because someone is saying they shouldn't go to mixers? Your are saying because they didn't get exactly what they wanted rules shouldn't exist? Lots of girls took bids to sororities they didn't originally want but wanted so badly to be in Greek life they took a chance (most who I know are thrilled they did).So these GID's who thought they were too good for lower ranked sorority's are now victims? They could have joined a sorority they choose not too. They could take open bids....they choose not to. So no you can't go to mixers. You made your choice when you thought you were to good for this system.
by: Getting this straightOct 29, 2018 5:21:00 PM
First of all, Not everyone got a bid
Many that got a bid got it for DZ, which is new and struggling. When every other sorority has 30 new members, and poor DZ gets maybe one or 2, how appealing do you think this is. Apparently you didn't get that bid. Girls join sororities to make lots of new friends, not a couple. When they started DZ perhaps they should have taken a couple of members from each existing sorority, that could have helped. PanHel should have offered some incentive.
But lets be real here. You can't put a bunch of girls together and think they will all be fast friends--no way. Might work with guys, but not girls. As you go through time, and quicker than you realize, you will see that there are cliques of girls within cliques. Because you are referred to as sisters, you are no way loving everyone in your sorority.
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by: wowOct 29, 2018 5:37:02 PM
posted under wrong place...WOW thats harsh way to bash DZ. I know some girls in DZ and they are amazing. Maybe if people didn't think like you they wouldn't be struggling. BTW they have mixers and they would bring anyone who wanted to come because they don't judge
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by: hold onOct 29, 2018 5:46:37 PM
don't know any girls who didn't get a bid if they didn't drop when they didn't get invited back. Unless they suicide bid but then again....choice
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by: wrongOct 30, 2018 11:03:39 AM
Nope, you are wrong. Some girls did not get bids. Some girls only got DZ. Not bashing anyone in DZ, the couple girls I know are nice girls, but most would understand that joining a new sorority, with a small amount of members, is not for everyone.
Don't fault the girls who attend mixers with friends. They probably don't feel comfortable all the time anyway, but would rather go out than stay at home. Many would welcome paying the dues in your sorority too. Like someone else said, be nice.
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by: IfffOct 30, 2018 11:22:12 AM
Maybe if more girls who want to join things do join DZ it wouldn’t be so small that girls would say “ they only got a bid to DZ”. I know you meant no harm by that comment and I agree. But this is a great opportunity to create a great new sisterhood.
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#8 by: nice
@getting this straight Lets be real? I guess your in top tier or think so highly of yourself and your "sisters" that you can only imagine how unappealing getting a bid from DZ would be. Hope your not in AZD who a few years ago had 3 pledges and were considered the DZ of the Greek life at Bucknell.
by: Getting this straightOct 29, 2018 5:50:13 PM
@nice reread what you wrote, AZD was considered the DZ a few years ago. What does that mean? Thats a rhetorical question, you don't need to answer.
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by: move onOct 29, 2018 6:15:24 PM
Getting this straight you really need to get a life. Do you think your funny? Rhetorical
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by: are you seriousOct 29, 2018 11:21:55 AM
@please I am not delusional in the least, you are one rough tough girl, to put it nicely. Exclusive is hardly a word I would describe the greek system by. You don't think for one second that some of the girls left of this process were mistakes? Most of us do. And just as some that were given bids were mistakes as well--you for starters!!. There really isn't a need for you attitude. MOST don't share it with you.
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