here is a suggestion

Probably beating a dead horse, but.....stop the self ranking and trying to make others look bad. The fact is that NO one, including the house actives, really know what they have in a pledge class. All the pictures I have seen show a lot of attractive girls, although that is not all a sorority should be about.
APhi, if you would ignore the posts about the video, it will go away. Accept that it was a mistake and move on. It could have come from almost anywhere else and been ignored. The media LOVES to jump on the state of Alabama...it is a throwback to the 60s and yes as a state, we do some pretty stupid things, ie, trying to be bigger than the US Supreme Court. Concentrate on getting that QPA up. That will do more for you than ANYTHING.
I do wish you all good luck. We need more sororities on campus as the plan is to grow it to 50K.