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I only got 4 houses

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I’m from OOS and only got 4 houses back, SK, Theta, AOPi and Phi Mu. I’m very outgoing and feel like I don’t fit in with any of them. Advise?

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#1  by: don't care   
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Drop and cob

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by: StfuAug 8, 2022 4:11:46 PM

No, horrible advice. It’s too early to drop

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#2  by: :)   
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Trust the process and see how the first few weeks in the house goes! You’ll be surprised how quickly you can find your people.

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#3  by: anon   
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There's outgoing girls in every single chapter. You will find your friends. Don't give up on the process just bc you think you're better than some houses, it is't the best look. If you truly cannot find a home, drop before initiation and rush again.

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#4  by: Alum   
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Stick it out, you will talk to different girls from other sororities in the end if you feel the same way you can always drop at pref and cob or try again next year. But you never know if you don’t try to stick it out.

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#5  by: Me   
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If you can’t fit in with 4 different groups of 350-450 girls, it’s your problem. Not theirs.

Sorry your rush didn’t go as you expected, but if you want to be in a sorority, this will be your best chance.

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by: :)Aug 8, 2022 3:59:12 PM

There is no need to attack an 18 year old who is just trying to have rush be the best experience for themself & is seeking help. It’s not easy to navigate groups of 300+ girls if you don’t already know people in house.

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#6  by: yay   
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Go Phi Mu!

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#7  by: house   
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Keep an open mind! There's nothing wrong with any of these houses. See where you feel a connection. Don't worry about what others think or say. This is your decision.

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#8  by: Advice    
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Like others are saying, keep an open mind. I’m sorry you feel like you don’t fit in the ones you got back. However, try finding relatable ground with the actives you talk to in each house. Try to see yourself in each chapter. You can always ask your Rho Chi for advice and guidance too! You aren’t alone, there’s so many girls who are in the same boat as you. It’s okay, it happens.

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