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fair warning on social media follows

by: Pc15   

As we head into this, I wanted to give pnms a little fair warning. Don’t count too much on, or read too much into, actives or house accounts following you on insta. Many houses cast a very wide net on their following. Even if you have dozens of followers from a house, you could still be dropped early. Happens all the time and makes pnms surprised. A bunch of followers is good in that you are on radars. Being in the radar does not translate to invites. So take everything one step at a time and assume nothing.

Posted By: Pc15
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#1by: Active    
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Yes!! I’m an active and following lots of PNMs. I’ll probably keep on eye on them during rush but that’s it unless I meet you and it goes great. There’s one girl my friends and I were following and we just found out today she’s getting dropped because of rep. We had no idea, we thought she looked like a nice, cute girl and got excited. Don’t read too much into follows!

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by: Wow   

So you drop people before you even meet them? What’s the point of round 1? Seems like a waste of time for many.

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by: Xoxox   

A girl can look nice and cute but then you look st her insta and it’s questionable, or you check her grades, ect... you want to be able to check them out.

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by: rep   

Alums and actives can pass on personal knowledge about reputation issues (are you a bully? have you repeatedly gotten wasted and vomited on various people's lawns? are you a klepto? did you smuggle ivory into the US after a mission trip - not kidding I heard a no rec about this).

These are the types of things that alums will mention in recs or tell actives about which will move you to the no invite list before recruitment even starts. If you don't have reputation issues, then chapters are excited to get to know you at IWT.

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by: Alum   

As a rec writing alum myself, I can attest to this. We are all well connected and we hear EVERYTHING and then include it in your recs.

Be very, very nice to those who write recs for you. And don’t forget to send thank you notes (an email is fine) and let us know where you pledge, even if t wasn’t our house.

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#2by: U   
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We all want you to want us. We will then decide if we want you. Tough way to say it. But true. Its just like you all want us to want you, but you know you will only pledge one.

By: U
#3by: Guest   
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Take this to heart pnms

By: Guest
#4by: Y2   
#4    

Bump

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#5by: Q   
#5    

Yes

By: Q
#6by: Members   
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Yep. So many get salty bc they think follow means interest and interest means we want you.

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by: You   

You are my favorite troll ;), Momma “Salty” Dog.

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#7by: Uop   
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Bb

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#8by: ?   
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Is there a difference in a house following you vs a bunch of sisters?

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by: .   

i wouldn't read too much about a house following you, some just follow people back to increase their following. keep in mind, the page is run by a sister, not the whole chapter.

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#9by: Ttownie   
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Bump

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#10by: Higgy   
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Ff

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