actives being rude

I agree with all of this but then it is up to the leadership team to notice and swap out girls who are not up to it in a round. This is especially true in later rounds. I could't believe how rude some of the girls were when I went through and once in our house made a point to bring this up. We are hosting and putting our best foot forward to make everyone feel welcome.

There is no excuse for uninterested or rude but we have all seen it, especially in a few of the same houses. Funny to see those girls around campus, in classes, or at games and realize how irrelevant they actually are when they are now trying to be nice and chat us up.

Not every house has the ability to switch girls out because they are tired. Everyone is tired!! Sometimes there are parties with 120+ girls coming through. Not every acitive in every house is there during rush either. Just because a house has 400+ girls doesn’t mean they are all there due to various things such as internships. I did experience a house when I went through rush that the girl fell asleep while a sister was giving a speech and then forgot that she had talked to me the previous round and was very uninterested. But that helped me know I wasn’t supposed to be in that house. Just don’t take it personal and move on to the house that best fits you. Leadership can’t control 400+ girls either. There is just so much going on during rush that PNMs don’t know about so stop stirring up trouble because you didn’t fit in a house you thought you wanted.