i get bullied and i am going to ua’22

well I’m sorry. I just hear everyone talking all bad about lower sororities and saying that you might as well be a gdi

Everyone as in the other incoming freshman who also have no idea what Bama Greek life is really about? Or everyone as in the minute fraction of sad and bitter people on this site who can make any claim about any Greek organization they want?

Get off your high horse. Every sorority offers the same exact things, friends, experiences, and memories and isn't that what you want? Isn't that what a sorority provides? Ranks and tiers are only a thing on this website. I know it's hard to understand that because this site does a good job at making people feel like if they don't have XYZ house then Greek life isn't even worth it... But this site is such a facade, making PNMs believe in intangible tiers.

My genuine advice to you and all other PNMs reading this: This isn't the movies. Groups of girls in "top" houses don't control everything. Boys in "top" frats aren't going to turn you away if your sorority isn't "top tier." Sororities don't plot to take each other down. This school is huge and no one is bound by expectations and social status like you were in high school, you can literally do anything you want. Rush because you want a sense of community. And join a sorority because you honestly feel connected to the girls. If you join a house solely on "status" then you're going to feel very unfulfilled.