to whom it matters and not

I was asked to check out this site by a friend who knows I go to Bama. Ya'll are about half nuts....lol

I guess some pnms come on here to check things out, so l'll offer this advice.

There are people for whom these ranks and their placement really matter. If you can honestly would say or think something like "My parents would be really upset if I didn't get in house X or Y and be mortified to tell their friends if I was in house A or B" or "I'd really feel rejected if Imdid t get in the house where I know a ton of girls", then "IT MATTERS"

And you don't need to be on GR to know where you want/need to be. However, it seems some come on here to promote their brand and shade others to attract these girls. Most girls in the "it matters" class have two or three houses that will work.

If this is NOT you - trust me it doesn't matter.

I know and love the girls in the "it matters" class. But I left the ones I know best in my far OOS home state school(s, and chose to come to Bama.

Now I'm not one of those people to tell a "it doesn't matter" class girl to avoid the OR/top houses (some seem to say that on GR), but I am going to say they aren't going to give us it doesn't matter girls a "better" experience just because they are ranked high.

Nor are they going to turn you into an in-state or regionally "connected" girl because you garnered membership. You are going to leave with the parents, the upbringing, the wealth,the status, the talents and brains and skills you arrived with, no matter what house you find yourself in. Yes, your sorority experience will influence and effect your life, but it's not going to fundamentally change who you are and how you were raised.

If you are in the "it matters" class, good luck. Hope you manage the expectations and pressures well, rush perfectly, and find yourself where you always wanted on bid day.

If you are in the "it doesn't" class, find your fit. That's all that matters (to you)!\n\n\n\n\n