dirty rushing

You are supposed to follow a type of honor code. If you work or associate with a future PNM on a regular basis ( she goes to your club, you are close with her family, she is a relative), you are supposed to let Panhel know that there will be access to this PNM that other houses won’t have. Then, you are supposed to go about your business WITHOUT discussion of your sorority with the future PNM. Otherwise, you could be brought up for dirty rushing that PNM. If you become aware of a PNM conflict during no contact, you are supposed to contact your recruitment chair as soon as you realize it and they will contact Panhel on your behalf. Following a PNM on social media during no contact is allowable. Private messages or texting is not.

I agree, if you already hang out with girls, you will obviously get into a sorority easier than someone who doesn’t know the girls