what to do
by: DZCan someone give me some solid advice? My distant third choice was DZ and that is the bid I received. I dropped this house twice and it kept coming back to me. I don't feel a connection with this house or the people I have met. Do I stay on and hope for the best or maybe just drop now? I will admit that part of my problem is that this house doesn't have a very good reputation. Please help!
#11 by: ...
As one who got an unwanted bid from dz in the past, just stuck around for a couple months until initiation and drop. Don't get initiated or you can't re rush!! Literally get straight a's and get involved with something else on campus and you'll have no problem rerushin. Being a gdi for a couple months after dropping and waiting to re rush is so much better than being a dz
Commentby: DZAug 20, 2017 1:10:35 PM
by: TAug 20, 2017 1:43:13 PM
It's not bad...its what you make of it. People need to feel better about themselves so they put another house down. I would guess the ones who are saying all the negative feel insecure about their own...which they shouldn't. Last year I went to pref at 2 NR and 1 OR. AP, AXO, Pi Phi,and they were all so nice. No huge difference except for the way certain people perceive them. All want the best girls, but so many have a different view of what the best girl is. Find your friends in your PC. Wear your letters and be glad you have 140 automatic friends who are worried just like you.
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#12 by: Best
Some people don't have the mental strength and tenacity to live their true life. When I rushed I accepted a bid from a "lower tiered" house. Found friends. My big was a sister who had me at pref. Got on exec my sophomore year, moved up on exec my junior year. Became one of their best recruiters.. Joined other awesome campus orgs too. Did it bother me that rep was not as high as some houses? Yes some days it did. People can be rude wherever. Go to an SEC football game and sit with the other side. So what. Everyone loves their team, tribe, fraternity, sorority -- and believes their group is the best.
Mine is the best 🙂
by: chillAug 20, 2017 2:33:56 PM
by: Love this!Aug 20, 2017 3:53:12 PM
Beautiful post. You made me tear up, especially the part about living authentically. Social media can make this so hard sometimes.
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by: MeAug 20, 2017 12:57:25 PM
In a similar situation. How did rerushing work for you? Did you feel welcomed
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