dear pnms

Hello,

after hearing about some of your experiences and concerns, I wanted to write each and every one of you reading this website. When I came in last year I was terrified. I knew nobody. I was always considered average during high school and never thought highly of myself. After buying a few cute outfits, I felt slightly more confident. After the first night, my confidence crashed once again. I know it's intimidating. There are some girls that probably are a legacy at every house or a triple legacy for a house you really like. There are probably girls that spent two years planning their outfits and spent way too much on their shoes. I know it seems like you don't belong anywhere right now and your confidence was probably knocked down a ton the moment you showed up this morning. If you're anything like me, it tears you apart. Just know everyone is in your place. Everyone is anxious, everyone is lacking confidence, know every girl feels exactly the way you feel. Lift each other up, let the girl next to you she looks bomb, embrace your beauty, your outfit, your personality. We are all so excited about each and every one of you. Please don't let little things get in the way.