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by: First one out

If you are the first one out or in the first group, is this always a bad sign? I was some places but still wasn't cut. Would I have been a filler there?

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#1  by: Pnm ex   
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Not a good sign but just bc you are last group doesn't mean they want you for YOU. Some chapters are after a name- some are sincere. Some want you bc they want to pull your friends in too. Up to you to figure it out honesty. Look how they treated you previously if you knew them or how they treat others in your group .

By: Pnm ex
by: ^Jul 23, 2017 2:01:39 PM

WTF kinda answer is that? OP obviously not in a sorority, never been through rush, and really seems like they posted the question and then gave this lame answer.

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#2  by: X   
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In my house first out has no significance, it just depends on where the active you're talking to is sitting

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by: activeJul 23, 2017 2:08:12 PM

Same here, we are focused on being efficient not sending subliminal messages about how much we like you lol

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#3  by: active   
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For what it's worth, I ended up in a house where I was usually in the first group/middle group to leave. The other houses I preffed I feel like I usually left later, so I don't think it means too much.

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#4  by: act   
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There are some houses that have girls they're really interested put in a different room from everyone else and they dismiss that room last so they have a few more minutes to talk... But for the most part, it doesn't matter. Most houses aren't set up where they take their "important" girls elsewhere and you're not usually dismissed based on how much a house likes you.

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#5  by: Hmm   
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I most definitely was treated differently at some houses as far as placement and saw girls at certain OR sororities being held back and last to leave. We had to wait on them lol.

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#6  by: XYZ   
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It almost never has any significance. Like someone already pointed out, it's about efficiency. We have to get all the PNMs out before a specific time and not a second later. So we generally dismiss by rooms. Although if I'm having a REALLY good conversation with a PNM and I don't want it to end, I'll keep sitting with her and walk her out towards the end. But that doesn't mean I haven't also loved PNMs I didn't walk out last. It just depends.

Please don't overthink stuff like this.

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#7  by: Lu   
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My house was one of my favorites all the way through and after sisterhood I was the first one out and I literally cried myself to sleep thinking I was going to get cut because they clearly wanted to get rid of me if I was out first. Of course I was WRONG. I'm now happily a member of that house:)

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#8  by: Hmmm   
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Either all of these are girls are lying or my house just does things differently... if you are first out it either means we know nothing about you (no rec/no one in the house knows of you), we do know you and we don't think you're a good fit, or you may have been over looked because there are literally 2600 girls going through rush and that is SO MUCH planning. If you were middle out, don't sweat it you're in pretty good shape just be your best self (you're probably in the middle because we didn't know you in the previous round and the girls you talked to really liked you). If you are close to being last out that means we either really want you or we really want more time to talk to you to see if we really want you!

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#9  by: Yep    
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Last post is accurate for mine as well. Almost all OR uses placement

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