let's be real here

I think that it is important that PNMs know what they are getting into. Most every place, you can find a niche and be happy. BUT, there are places that can be more of a fit for you and it needs to be said pre-rush so hopefully you find the place for you!

If you do not want partying to be the focus of your sorority life or want to be encouraged to be involved in activities on campus, active in HC,Greek Week and Derby Days:

Don't go KD or DDD

Conversely, if you do want to mainly party and are not into being active on campus, do join those. Everyone has their own thing.

I feel like every other sorority on campus is a joiner but these. Even Kappa lol. And so a lot of people on here know this and the pan love isn't as strong. I. The heat of competition, sororities argue, but hey at least they are all participating.

I think DDD is more accepting of its general membership but still there is laid back & there is complete apathy.

This isn't going to change anytime soon, so go in knowing what you will get.