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Just because you 'heard' a story from 1 girl about their sisterhood, does not make it true. And then you repeat the 'story'. Gossip is toxic, so please don't.

But the honest truth is that there are some houses that have more welcoming and friendly sisterhoods while others who don't. I agree that you can't judge a house based on one group of girls. Nor can you assume the entire sisterhood is "bad." Every house has girls who are catty and rude to one another and every house also has girls who are nice and inviting. BUT some houses have larger margins of girls who are one or the other. And you can't deny that.


Some houses actually push their girls to bond with one another and mix friend groups. Some houses provide ample sisterhood and character building events. While some houses just let their girls do what they want and never intervene when drama arises. The truth is that there are some houses here known for having strong sisterhoods where the girls are nice to one another. And there are some houses here known for having the opposite of that. HOWEVER, sorority life is what you make of it. You can easily be put into a house known for a "good" sisterhood and feel that it's awful if you don't put yourself out there. And you can easily be put into a house known for a "bad" sisterhood and feel that it's amazing if you try.