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by: pnm June 22, 2017 2:59:05 PM

if you can be honest,which houses did you feel were friendly to you in rush and were there some where you just were left feeling out?

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#11by: . June 22, 2017 7:07:46 PM

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felt welcome: kkg, adpi, xo, pbp, aphi, gphi, aopi, dz, ddd, kat
did not feel welcome: axo, agd, pm, zta, kd

i'm southern oos btw

By: .June 22, 2017 7:07:46 PM

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#12by: Yep June 22, 2017 7:09:28 PM

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I believe KD, PhiMu and XO tend to throw the strongest disinterest if you are not in the running. Maybe more "honest" that faking it even if you don't stand a chance

Beyond that, "not feeling welcome" can be the luck of the draw relative to who you meet.

Other than those three, girls may not have connected with a house, but have never really talked about feeling " unwelcome".

By: YepJune 22, 2017 7:09:28 PM

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#13by: being real June 22, 2017 7:58:11 PM

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felt comfortable in: DG, ADPi, Theta, KD, APhi, ZTA, Tri Delt, GPB, PBP, KAT, AGD, AOPi

SO unwanted: PM, AXO, XO

california PNM

By: being realJune 22, 2017 7:58:11 PM

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#14by: Hmm June 22, 2017 8:03:44 PM

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Northern OOS about the same but switch KD and AXO.

Cool reception was KD, XO and PhiMu.

By: HmmJune 22, 2017 8:03:44 PM

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#15by: Oos June 22, 2017 8:25:44 PM

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I'm from the west coast

Felt welcomed: axo, xo, kd, gbp, theta, DG, ADPi

Pm and zeta weren't unwelcoming but I could tell I didn't fit in look-wise (I'm much more "girl next door" looking) so I felt intimidated tbh

DDD, AGD, PBP, and Kappa all seemed very disinterested in me and honestly they didn't make a strong impression on me either

DZ, AOPi, and APhi were all awkward for me

By: OosJune 22, 2017 8:25:44 PM

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#16by: A June 22, 2017 8:27:49 PM

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Maybe that's a good question then. Would you rather they fake it and break your heart, or not fake it so you get the initial snub but can drop them first?

By: AJune 22, 2017 8:27:49 PM

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by: AA June 22, 2017 8:57:18 PM

I'm speaking about IWTs. I don't think that faking it is that hard nor is it leading a pnm on, per se. The IWT rounds last 10 minutes and you don't really connect with a house until the following rounds. If you can't treat all the PNMs equally, making them feel welcome for TEN minutes, regardless of if your house wants them or not, you probably shouldn't be rushing girls.

By: AAJune 22, 2017 8:57:18 PM

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#17by: . June 22, 2017 11:32:44 PM

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Felt welcome: chi o, alpha chi, aoii, dg, zeta, phi phi, alpha phi

Felt judged or uncomfortable: phi mu, theta, alpha gam

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#18by: AC June 23, 2017 10:02:55 AM

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I felt comfortable in every house but axo and agd.
In agd the girl I was talking to brought me to another girl and told her I was from a state that I'm not from and isn't even close to where I'm from.
In AXO the girl was just plain rude. I'm not sure it was on purpose bc I think that she picked me up and someone else was supposed to grab me from her and missed me but she barely said anything the whole time and looked like physically uncomfortable and was barely even smiling. I just really wanted to get out of there by the end it was excruciating.

By: ACJune 23, 2017 10:02:55 AM