some old row cuts

I'm from the south, had better grades than you, and was still dropped from those three houses at the same times you were. Sometimes it just happens. It's less of being from the south itself and more about already knowing girls in the houses. I did not have connections in these three particular houses and it sounds like you probably didn't either.

lol but that's still being biased to where a PNM is from. obviously, a PNM like me from the north isn't going to know anyone well enough in a southern-majority house to pull me through. my point is that most old row houses in general don't consider grades or involvement too much during rush. they'd rather have average girls they grew up with rather than a new girl from a place they've never been who has respectable grades and involvement.
you have to be a very outstanding PNM to get a bid from some old row houses if you don't have connections and i think its just weird idk...

I get what you're saying but I think it would be odd for houses to drop girls they already know and like in favor of someone they've never met before rush. If that's the definition of a southern bias to you I guess we had different definitions which is fine

what i mean is that some old row houses don't take an objective look at girls during rush. they'll always give a bid to a close friend, no matter if she has bad grades, a bad reputation, etc... but they'll rack their brains over whether or not they should give a bid to a well rounded girl they don't know. i understand you want a house to be filled with girls you already know, but its to the point where some houses are literally choosing connections over grades, involvement, etc.

You were cut from Alpha Chi and Alpha Gam because you didn't have recs.