how did you know?

I went with my gut feeling. Trying to be too logical doesn't usually work well in this situation. Trust your feelings. Your heart knows best.

Please wait until prefs. I was torn between 2 as well but made up my mind at prefs. I jsaw a better sisterhood in my house but I still was prepared to get my #2 or #3 and you should be too.

For pref, I walked into my house sobbing, and pretty much stayed that way through the whole party. I didn't do that in the other houses. I would have been happy with the others, but they weren't the "one." I didn't know until pref, though.

Pref tends to be the "game changer" for many PNM's. It can be a touching and emotional ceremony in which you see the deeper bonds of sisterhood. I went into pref with 2 houses tied in my head and left knowing I absolutely had a #1 choice.

It's normal to be torn right now.

Torn between my top two until pref, then I knew.

I'll be honest sometimes you just don't know. I liked both houses I preffed but wouldn't say I loved them... and definitely didn't feel like either were "the one".... I could see myself in both and I liked the girls equally but for different reasons... I literally did enny meeny miney mo ranking... but I KNEW as soon as ran to my house that it was the right one for me- my pledge sisters were amazing and I can't imagine now that I ever was torn. I also look at the other house and think great girls but can't believe i thought I would fit in. It sounds kinda stupid but if you really don't know trust yourself and trust that most of the time bid matching gets it right. Also notice the other girls who are the parties with you-sometimes that can help too knowing that they are going to be the ones that you will be closest too. Good Luck.