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I know a terrific girl who had a similar experience as yours. She gave SDT a look, and fell in love with the chapter. She is so happy. Please do give them a try.

Let the process work. Our daughter was fortunate to have a great rush at Alabama. Despite not being rich, not being from Alabama, not being a legacy and all of the other things that this site says will help. Unfortunately her roommate did not have a full schedule after IWT. She only had 2 houses...fast forward to bid day. They both ended up in houses they love and have remained very good friends. Don't dwell on why you weren't invited back to a certain house! Focus on the houses you are invited back too. There is no bad sorority at Bama. All of them have wonderful, smart, talented, and beautiful girls. Remember beauty is only skin deep and what's on the inside is what counts. You will all end up in Nike shorts and T-shirts that are way too big after rush is over.

Maybe you can help their return to the row in your junior year? That would be cool for sdt to be the next house added to formal recruitment.

Chin up Melody! Its tough, but you seem like a great girl and you'll get thru this. I know some SDTs and they are all awesome girls and love their sisterhood, and that is what being in a sorority is all about. Its not about the big houses, etc....its about finding YOUR home and those girls who will be with you thru thick and thin for a lifetime.