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by: DJFKDAHF
After going through rush, and knowing too much about rankings and wanting to join core 4 etc (I'm now in an upper mid-tier house and so so so happy!!)... I am really sad people always hate on Phi Mu!!! I seriously SERIOUSLY liked them SO much better than a few of the houses rated right above them.
Obviously rankings don't matter and it is silly to think they are accurate, but Phi Mu has really seriously wonderful and fun-seeming girls!! Their house is so nice now that they nationals came and did it all and I'm just confused why people feel the need to always hate!! I honestly would have joined Phi Mu, but I wouldn't have joined some others... idk... just start giving them some credit!
Comment#4 by: but
And yet, people still refuse to give them a chance which is why they are struggling. Having friends in this chapter, I have heard horror stories about how PNMs treat them. Literally making them cry, not saying a word, etc and they are still being allowed to join other chapters. It's disgusting and I wish people would realize that they treat these ladies like they're less than human
by: YeahJan 22, 2020 12:52:18 PM
I 100% agree that you should never bully people during rush or be rude etc. However, the problem stems from the fact that girls don’t see another way to cut that house. I ended up going back to phi my three times, despite ranking them near the bottom on each occasion. I understand that in a perfect world I should have “given them a chance,” but frankly I was more interested in other houses and wanted to be with my friends (and before you start calling me social climby, the houses i liked were all “lower” houses, just weren’t phi mu specifically). The current system doesn’t give girls a way to cut a house, regardless of where the house ranks the pnm. The way the algorithm works forces girls to be borderline rude if they want to stop going back to a certain house. This isn’t just true of phi mu either; I have a friend who ended up at a house where she had legacy up until pref, despite having no interest in that house. If panhel really sees this as a problem, they need to adjust the way the algorithm works so pnms don’t try and force their scores way down.
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by: .Jan 22, 2020 5:56:35 PM
So being rude to a house that you are not interested in is not gonna get you your top choice if your top choices aren't interested in you...
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by: wtffffJan 21, 2020 1:26:49 AM
wtf this is really sad to hear!!!! can u elaborate on the part making them cry? i have friends in phi mu but not very close so i don't think it's appropriate to ask but really wish them the best
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