Best advice for a pnm?? Plz!

There are always lots of girls just like you. You are going to be fine. Keep in mind that the sororities do not ever see your rankings of them, so that is not a consideration during their membership selection. That means that some of your favorites will not ask you back. But don't take it personally, it's just because of numbers and each chapter is held to an absolute number of pnm's they can have back, and pnm's they absolutely love don't make their cutoff. It's hard on both sides of rush and both pnm's and actives get absolutely gutted when their favorites are no longer an option. But it's important to not let emotions get the better of you and ruin your rush; keep focused and do your best at the choices you are presented with. If you have favorites at round 3 then tell them so, and if you have a clear top choice at pref then tell them that. They can't read your mind and if you aren't clear about how you feel they may not rank you as highly. Don't compare your rush to anyone else's, don't listen to gossip or rank talk, TRUST YOUR OWN GUT.