Pnm's who don't know what to do after round 3
by: Last chance
Pnm's, if you are on here because you are not sure what to do next or are not happy with the chapters you have left, here's some advice that others find helpful:
Go to pref. Give them one last chance. This is often a game changer for pnm's in your situation. And also while you are there, take a look at the other pnm's at that pref, some of them will be in that new member class. Those are the girls who will be the most important to you in your sorority and with whom you will be closest and find your friend group. While the older girls rushing you set the tone, your new member class is everything.
If, after that, you are absolutely sure that a house is not for you and you would not accept a bid from them no matter what and would rather have no bid at all, then you don't have to put them on your card.
#1 by: Give them a chance
The whole rush process is a grind but also like speed dating. You get a little time with each srat and that gives you just a limited visibility into them. PNMs get in trouble when they fall in love with one or two srats and get dropped by them. Or when they are not excited about what they have left.
But think about it. Did you build up those srats a little too much? Are you being too harsh on those that are left?
If you are not crazy about those that are left keep in mind they are the ones that want you. They see that you fit their vibe even if you don't.
Believe me the srats all have their own culture. They understand what they are like and matching people to it is easier for them than it is for the pnm who is nervous, excited, and stressed out during the whole process.
Take a breath and give all the houses you have left a chance. There is another round. Soon you will be down to two or one house. You will be happier with them if you go in with a positive perspective and not prejudging them based on greek rank.
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