Would you stay or drop?

If you are invited, go to pref. You have absolutely nothing to lose. Check the other PNMs attending the party. Talk to them as you wait outside. Give the chapters a chance. If after pref, you absolutely, positively would rather not be in a sorority rather than join the ones that invited you to pref, don’t sign your MRABA and tell Panhellenic you are withdrawing. You would then be eligible for snap bids( please don’t count on a snap bid-they aren’t very common) or COB.

I will echo what others have said. COB opportunities will be slim, and most likely will be the houses you are not as interested in.

you got the best advice hang in to pref

If you truthfully did not feel at home in either how or enjoy those around you at those houses I would drop

It's up to you, but I've known a few AXiD's and they all seemed like nice girls to me! It's a weird situation since they aren't well established, but I think they are trying to work their way up the social ladder. Any sorority is going to be what you make of it, so I would just go with your gut

A friend went to axid pref today and loved them. They are new but so what. You can still have a great sisterhood. Dont know about dphie.

FYI, they aren’t setting quota or chapter total “low” as some have stated here. Quota will be set as it is every year, based on the number of women who go to peer and complete MRABAs. Chapter total will be set at average chapter size. It doesn’t change much just because of a new chapter or smaller chapters.

If you have two choices left for preference and you want to be in a sorority, you go to pref and see what happens. But dead serious in saying that your choices aren’t going to drastically change in COB or Spring. You have your options - it’s up to you to make your situation the best for you.