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Oh please. Cannot believe people in here are crushing this girl for walking and then turning around and ranking the two houses she received bids for dead last. It's better to be in a house you prefer than to take an offer just to be Greek. There is so much more to being involved than the pettiness you see here. Grow up girls.

In my opinion you shouldn't have dropped because you still had two houses that loved you and wanted you for their sister. I think you are a freshman and GR and tent talk got all in your head and you didn't realize that the important thing about recruitment is to get into a sorority. I know you said you didn't connect, but tbh if you can't connect when there are hundreds of girls in the house, that might be on you, not them. In which case you wouldn't have connected with any house.

If those houses COB I think you should meet up with them and apologize for dropping out and give some excuse such as you were overwhelmed or something. Tell them you're still interested if they have any spots open up this year. Then pray they do.