stress about rush week

It doesn't matter which house your friends want. The houses do the cutting the recruits just get to pick from houses that invite them back. OU has one of the toughest recruitments but as a result most of the houses are really great. My advice to you is to get off this site and find some more Rec's you are going to get cut from every house you don't have one for by the second round. Yes it's true some of the houses can find a rec on you IF they want you but at OU no house will actually do that because they simply don't have too. At OU no house needs you they have plenty of great girls to chose from they are all looking for reasons to release pmn's and no rec is pretty much the first reason along with grades or a bad rep.

Yes, find recs for all the houses. Ask your mom to help. Ask for help on facebook. Give everyone you ask a resume and a stamped envelope in case their glo wants them submitted in writing. Then write a followup thankyou. Ask your friends who wrote their letters for any house you still don't have and ask if they'll introduce you. Some alums may want to meet you. Do whatever you need to do, but you do need letters. It may be that someone will write a rec for you without your knowing it, but don't count on that. Do the work now to make your recruitment successful. The person above is right that a house can get a rec but why would they do that for you if they still have plenty of other girls they like who already have recs????