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by: ...Jul 8, 2015 8:08:21 PM

Is it dirty rushing if different girls are reaching out to me now? And what does this mean

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#1 by: Depends Jul 8, 2015 8:14:35 PM

What do you mean by reaching out to you? Do you have mutual friends with them? Are they asking you to come stay in oxford or inviting you to dinner or are they trying to pay for your drinks and food? Reaching out is vague.

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#2 by: Different girls? Jul 8, 2015 9:48:16 PM

Do you know them or have mutual friends with them? Actives, specifically sophomores who are going back home, are told to strengthen connections with pnms over the summer. We're encouraged to meet up for coffee or lunch with girls from our HS and hometown. It's not dirty rushing. Chances are someone in their pledge class or an alumni told them to contact you. It doesn't sound like dirty rushing at all. You're clearly wanted so why are you even concerned about dirty rushing?

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#3 by: ... Jul 8, 2015 9:51:13 PM

so it means that they want me??

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by: More than likely, yes. Jul 8, 2015 9:54:05 PM

If they're really reaching out to you and rushing you hard, they want you. It doesn't mean you'll get an automatic bid. But if you can form relationships with those girls then you definitely have a good shot.

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