Stop making decisions based on ranks, pairs, etc

To all the pnms who are solely focused on getting into a “top” house you’re going to be disappointed. Every house has pairs and goes to parties. Focus on your conversations and have an open mind. Get over yourself with the ranks and realize it is never that deep. When you graduate are you really going to tell people about the fact that you were in a top house or are you going to remember the genuine memories made with your sisters? Dropping just because you didn’t get what you think you wanted is really a shame.