can i get into a frat party as a geed?
by: Potential geedI got a private bid from a good house but I don’t feel like I fit in and I don’t really want to take it just to be in a sorority. If one of my sorority or fraternity friends gets me on the list can I get into a frat party or should I take the bid if I want to have any social life at all
#1 by: parties
If you don't fit in, don't take it. After this week and next, your friends should be able to get you into parties. Stay in touch with the friends, they only have to live in one year. You can live with them in two years and then depending on when you're 21, it's all good.
Comment#2 by: Wait what?
How do you know you don’t fit in?
How much time have you spent with all 100-200 women in this house?
This is your best chance to go Greek, they see something in you.
I’d ask to meet more members before decking a bid, meeting people on a regular setting vs formal recruitment makes a huge difference.
by: HaJan 18, 2019 12:21:52 PM
If her main question about sorority membership is “do I have to be in one to get into frat parties” I’m not quite sure why you want to talk her into reconsidering.
And it might not be not fitting in with the house but fitting in with Greek life in general. It’s not for everyone, especially here where living in is such an immense deal.
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by: Wait what ? Jan 18, 2019 12:43:35 PM
Yeah good point....
Though I also have a feeling she considers herself top tier material and wants to know if she should settle for a good house because she’ll need to belong to a house to party at frats.
Aka never mind my advice potential geed, you can be a frat rat no letters required.
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by: yeahJan 18, 2019 1:22:04 PM
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by: U don’t no enufJan 18, 2019 1:40:35 PM
You don’t know enough about the Greek system or this particular house to make an informed decision yet. Same advice I gave someone else. Turn off your cell phone, go to the house, talk to the girls eye to eye, face to face - old school - no phones no texting no Snapchat Get to know them. Laugh and talk and hang out. Actually get to know them. Just like you did with your roommate. Were you instant besties on day one? Of course not! Same here. Give it a chance.
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