“Good conversation” = ???
by: ScaredpnmI’m so confused as to what’s considered a “good convo”. I’m a really bubbly and outgoing person so I clicked with every girl so almost nothing feels special if that makes sense? Idk if I’m being too hard on myself but like can an active tell me how to make a convo memorable vs just being good and flowy
#1 by: Overthinking
What is this question…I am genuinely scared + worried about this incoming pc’s social skills. Congrats on all of your convos being flowy? That’s a basic social skill I fear. There’s absolutely no way that all of the convos you had were all the same and that none stood out. I find it hard to believe that you didn’t enjoy some more than others. See what houses you get back and hopefully you have better convos then
Comment#2 by: don't be superficial
Being good and flowy is fine but they need to see if you FIT with them and you need to see who you FIT with.
Three things:
Give insight into your personality. You don't want to be just a nice enough generalist. What are you really LIKE? Does that resonate with any of the members you talk to so that you feel a real connection beyond surface coversation?
Show that you are INTERESTED in that chapter. If there is any question about that you won't get ranked as high.
Demonstrate that you have something to OFFER the chapter as a member. What do you have going for you that they would want, other than being a good and flowy talker?
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