Regret accepting my bid
by: BSo I did formal recruitment and my preference houses were two “bottom” sororities, one of which I liked more and ranked first. I ended up getting a bid to the one I ranked second and now I can’t help but feel really disappointed that my top pick didn’t want me. I went to bid day but honestly just don’t feel good about accepting the bid, is there anything I can still do? Can I still try and COB another sorority?
Comment#2 by: x
Unfortunately you can’t, you can drop before initiation and wait a year to go through recruitment again. But my best advice to you, is that this is the such a normal feeling. I’ve personally been in that exact position a year ago. But if you don’t give your girls a chance or never try, you might regret it. This house chose you because they loved you, you were probably somebody’s rush crush. When I first joined I was so lost and unsure and hurt that I didn’t get my top house, but looking back I’m glad I didn’t give up, because I found my people who have pushed me to grow into who I am today and that loved me unconditionally every step of the way. I wouldn’t be where I am today without them and I’m happy I trusted my gut back then. Just give your chapter a chance to change your mind and if you’re still feeling that way before initiation or paying dues, drop. Best luck to you babe❤️
by: ;)Sep 23, 2025 6:04:38 PM
^ be grateful they took you in instead of AGD or AOPI. You wouldn’t want ur first year spent getting hazed, drop out and tru aphi or DG
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by: xSep 23, 2025 6:07:51 PM
Whatever chapter you would’ve gone to regardless of it was theta, agd, aoii, aphi or dg, don’t listen to the negativity. There’s a lot of insecure people on here right now that love to put people against each other to try and ruin others experiences. If they’re your people you’ll know❤️
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