to pnms who are disappointed

I understand that you guys might be disappointed about the outcomes of recruitment. Getting back your top 5 is not ideal, especially when you think it went well. Even though it may seem like the bottom srats are being "pushed," this is not the case. The top srats are extremely selective about who they want back. There is an extreme culling between tours and invites, and again between invites and preference, and chances are again between preference and bid day. While it may be annoying that you did not get your top picks and are stuck with the bottom srats, it is NOT the fault of the bottom ones. Seeing the "lower tier sororities" getting so much hate is not fair because this is not the fault of them nor panhel. This happens every single year.
While it is disappointing, it is important to remember that this is no one's fault.