Why is AOII so disliked/ignored?

I regret coming onto this website. I've heard of how toxic it is but this is my first time really looking at it.

Jfc I don't understand why AOII is so disliked and ignored. We're never mentioned with the other reviews or when we are we're just insulted. Almost makes me regret being in it if all we get is disrespect. I don't know. Did the previous actives do something?? I'm scared of interacting with other greek life members now. I'm prob going to worry and obsess that everyone is judging my chapter for some reason. I also don't get why some are taking ranks and reputations so seriously as if we're not hated by majority of UBC. As if we're really important like the American schools lmao.