am i just SOL???

Being in a sorority is what YOU make of it. Join any of the houses and YOU be the change to make a difference whether it be a top or bottom house.

your focus should not be rankings right now, being a sophomore doing COB is already a huge disadvantage because you’ve already had 2 opportunities for primary plus spring cob last year. let me give you some hard advice: make connections with sorority girls on exec positions who could potentially give you an in. also focus on your grades, top houses are not looking for people with under a 3.0 gpa. join clubs, get involved with stuff on campus and build up your profile. in a lot of top houses they really only bid girls who were invited to pref and sometimes second invite so go for those first. and lastly during cob events, just be yourself, i cannot emphasize this enough. don’t talk about how popular you were in high school because nobody wants to hear that. be honest about why you are rushing as a sophomore. houses can see through people who try to put on a fake personality and you don’t want to try it during COB even the stakes are even lower.